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The biggest trap lying in wait for man is a success and complacency. Do not get me wrong. I am not saying that you should not enjoy your success but I can only say that they do not motivate us the most. Is it not just go through the threshold of pain is the seed of most success? Can not we work harder when we needed much more than when it's all we have? Let me give you an example that, seemingly illogical sounding argument. We have two ten-athletes. One of them is the average and the second very good (both are very ambitious). What do you think of them, who will be better after five years? Logic tells us that after five years would be a better athlete, who had in his youth he had a better predisposition. What statistics tell us? Statistics show that the average good player will be successful in the long run. This is because, as good a player is motivated by the most pleasure. He gets medals, praise, and often falls into the trap of complacency. Then cease to pay so much for the training and after a long time resolves the first place to someone else. Completely contrary conduct middle-class athlete who is motivated and happy, but primarily suffering. He wants to beat the best player, and could not be achieved, experiences unpleasant feelings which led him often to work harder. While a better athlete lowers the intensity of your workout the average athlete does the opposite. If you have any doubts about what I'm trying to convey to you through this example of the athletes, it may convince you that negative motivation (avoidance of suffering) is a strategy that nature wbudowała in human nervous system. Every human action is motivated to achieve pleasure but mainly a desire to eliminate unpleasant sensations. Eat the food because we feel uncomfortable gnawing in his stomach. We dress up because it is cold to us. Sleep, because we feel tired. Do not get me wrong. I am not trying to prove that man is motivated only suffering. I myself am extremely pro-active and creative person create the life for me is extremely important. I love to have a clearly mapped out before him, specific goal, which positively stimulates me. But I try to use, this initial capacity of the human mind to avoid suffering. If sprawisz that these two forces, pleasure and suffering, work on your behalf will result zaskakujące.Sekret success is that in order to learn how to use pain and pleasure, and how not to let that pain and pleasure use you. If you do have mastered your life, if not, your life is above tobą.ANTHONY Robbins
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