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I want you to understand this fundamental principle of the human mind, which refers to everything. We take these activities, which we feel will bring us pleasure and avoid pain. Why emphasized words in our mind? Since it is not real pleasure or pain determines our behavior, but only our perception of it. Why does one person grip a very beautiful girl is ecstatic experience while someone else fills us with dread? What makes the same two people interpret the situation so differently? This is because it is not real pleasure or pain determines our behavior, but only our interpretation of the event. Simply speaking, all our neuroasocjacje depend on how our perception. Parząc the glass, half filled with water, we can define it in two ways. We can say that it is half full or half empty. The same happens with our associations related to picking up girls. We focus on the suffering that could bring us. We can think about potential rejection, the effort you need to take the danger of getting in the teeth of the boyfriend of the girl, if you have done. (So think people who do not podrywają unknown girls - focus on where the glass is empty). Another way of looking at the girls in contact with strangers is focusing on the positive of the situation. You know the very sexy, exciting girl, spend a nice time in cafes and in the evening in her apartment ... As you can see the feelings associated with a given behavior depend on what is more feasible for you at the moment: a pleasant or unpleasant aspects of the operation. You wonder now, that way of looking at the pick-up girls is true. You may believe that focusing on the positive is a kind of deceive themselves. I will tell you, however, that there is no adequate way, and each is somewhat narrowing the truth! We will never be aware of the true nature of things, so the question you should ask yourself at this point reads: "Which way of thinking helps me achieve my goals?"
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